I’m not with you on this.
I’m not ok with having 36 states banning gay marriage or making setting us back further on race issues.
Nor do I think it’s just to say that “well, the gays and Jews pulled themselves up by their bootstraps so why doesn’t everyone.” Not ever community has the same trauma. You essentially are denying the existence of deep structural racism and how it’s embedded into the very fabric of how our country and states were developed.
I’m with you that victimhood isn’t healthy but I’m not close to the same page on the rest.