Published in A Parent Is Born·PinnedMember-onlyI Identify as BrokeParenting kids when you have money. — I grew up in a family with few resources. We lived in a one-car garage house on a pot-hole-lined street that hadn’t been repaved in decades. Our neighbors were mostly working-class people living paycheck to paycheck. On more than one occasion our electricity and phones were shut off because my…Society5 min read
Published in Equality Includes You·5 days agoMember-onlyNothing Random About Acts of KindnessTake a break from negativity and instead change someone’s day for the better. — I’ve been a news junkie since I was 12, except then it wasn’t instant internet access to what took place across the world. I read the newspaper every day and used paper route and lawn-mowing money so I could subscribe to magazines and newsletters. U.S. News & World Report. The…Parenting3 min read
6 days agoMember-onlyWhen Waterbeds Were CoolRacial issues didn’t get worse; they got videoed — Columbus, Ohio. Circa 1988. I moved out of the dormitories to start my sophomore year at Ohio State. The rage at the time was waterbeds. One of every four mattresses sold back then was a waterbed. For those born too late for this environmentally irresponsible, motion-sickness-causing craze, a waterbed was…Racism5 min read
Aug 3Member-onlyBiden Is Failing On Racial JusticeThe fight against systemic racism takes another hit from bad leadership — For virtually all of us in racial justice circles, Trump’s defeat (yes, he really did lose) was refreshing. A welcome end to a disturbing four years. It’s incredibly hard to work on creating a just and more loving society when the narcissist at the top was constantly doing his best…Racism8 min read
Jul 30Member-onlyTop 10 Things White People Should Never Say to Black PeopleErase microaggression vocabulary — 10. I’m not a racist. I have Black friends. 9. Can I touch your hair? (or actually touching) 8. I wish I was Black. 7. You don’t sound Black? 6. You must be mixed since your skin is lighter. 5. When I look at you, I don’t see color. 4…Racism1 min readTop 10 Things White People Should Never Say to Black PeopleErase microaggression vocabularyImage: Kius/Shutterstock10. I’m not a racist. I have Black friends.9. Can I touch your hair? (or actually touching)8. I wish I was Black.7. You don’t sound Black?6. You must be mixed since your skin is lighter.5. When I look at you, I don’t see color.4…----
Published in A Parent Is Born·Jul 27Member-onlyLiterally Is the New LikeGen Z may be the key to achieving a post-racial world. — The first time my teenage daughter started dropping the word “literally” like they drop F-bombs in Ireland, I thought she was kidding around. “It’s literally an oven outside,” she said as we walked into the 100 degree Colorado heat one day this summer. “It’s actually not an oven,” I responded…Racism3 min read
Jul 23Member-onlyDu Bois’ Journey From Racist to Anti-RacistBefriending people different than ourselves can transform us — Born in 1868, W.E. B. Du Bois was one of the most prominent post-slavery civil rights activists in the history of America. Among his many achievements was his cofounding of the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People (NAACP), which led countless efforts to combat racism in virtually all…Racism4 min read
Jul 19Member-onlyIt’s Hammer Time For Black ThorMarvel Comics in 2022 still is promoting negative stereotypes — Marvel Comics released a new comic imagining what would have happened if character Miles Morales became Thor instead of Spider-Man. Morales is a fictional superhero appearing in Marvel comic books as one of the characters known as Spider-Man. The character was created in 2011. Recently, though, Marvel decided to create…Racism2 min read
Jul 14Member-onlyNoah’s Ark, Racism and the RainbowWe aren’t doing enough to eradicate racism and racist systems — Most people know what the Hebrew Bible is. Christians call it the Old Testament. Jews call it the Torah, along with the books of the Prophets and Writings. Regardless of the books’ names, we all know the famous stories there. The Garden of Eden. Cain and Abel. Abraham and Isaac…Racism5 min read
Jul 10Member-onlyWho’s Allowed to Use the N-WordIs there a double standard on who gets to say it and who doesn’t? — The answer is a resounding Yes. There’s a double standard on use of the N-word. So what. Here’s why that double standard is something we all just need to live with. I can assure you that your white life will be OK if you bury the word like the NAACP…Racism4 min read